Saturday, February 28, 2009
Father and Son
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Laughter is the Best Medicine
Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others cannot see it from themselves. – Sir James Matthew Barrie
Humor is just another defense against the universe. – Mel Brooks
Humor is a rubber sword—it allows you to make a point without drawing blood. – Mary Hirsch
Nobody ever died of laughter. – Max Beerbohm
Laughter is the tonic, the relief, the surcease for pain. – Charlie Caplin
Everything is funny as long as it is happening to somebody else. – Will Rogers
He deserves Paradise who makes his companions laugh. – The Koran
Laughter is the closest distance between two people. – Victor Borge
Reference: Donna Gephart
Sunday, February 15, 2009
How Happy Can You Get?
“Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp,” novelist Nathaniel Hawthorne once wrote, “but which, if you sit down quietly, may alight upon you.” And yet, in his provocative and scholarly Happiness: The Science Behind Your Smile (Oxford, British Psychologist Daniel Nettle finds that human beings are born with a preset level of happiness that may fluctuate during their lives but that remains basically unchanging.
Interestingly, most people rate themselves as “moderately to very happy” while persisting in the belief that they’ll be happier in the future. Our tireless drive toward happiness is simply evolution’s way of getting us out of bed in the morning. The possibility of good fortune lures us to go on, to achieve, to try header but following a period of euphoric adjustment to, say, a job promotion or a new romance, we slip back to our preprogrammed level of contentment. This phenomenon can be traced to “adaptation”—whereby having achieved their ambitions, human beings unconsciously up the ante.
At the same time, the author unearths a few everyday characteristics shared by people who say they are happy, including good health, a feeling of autonomy, and social connectiveness.
Reference: Peter Smith
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Stop Tears in their Tracks
APPLY PRESSURE Poking your fingertip with a paper clip helps shift your focus and activate the part of the brain that controls impulse. More control means fewer tears.
JUST OUT YOUR JAW As soon as your eyes start to well up, push your jaw forward in an exaggerated underbite. Apparently it’s difficult to sob and make a silly face at the same time, the two actions aren’t compatible.
TAKE IT OUTSIDE Going for a quick walk helps fend off the sobs in three ways: Removing yourself from the situation restores a sense of calm. Doing something active stimulates feel-good endorphins that can counter a weepy mood. And if you still cry, well at least you’re our of sight.