Happy Life - Passage

A HAPPY LIFE must be to a great extent a quiet life, for it is only in an atmosphere of quiet that true joy can live. - Bertrand Russell, british philosopher (1872-1970)

Less small talk makes for a happy life

Good morning friends Most people wanted to talk a lot specially when discussing things. But some people want to talk less. They said that less small talk makes for a happy life … Do you believe in that thing?

American research has found that people who engage in more deep conversations are likely to be happier than those indulging in small talk.

For the study, participants were asked to wear an unobtrusive recording device called the Electronically Activated Recorder (EAR) over four days. This device periodically records snippets of sounds as participants go about their lives. For this experiment, the EAR sampled 30 seconds of sounds every 12.5 minutes yielding a total of more than 20,000 recordings. The scientists then listened to the recordings and identified the conversations as trivial small talk or substantive discussions. Also, the volunteers completed personality and well-being assessments.

The analysis of the recordings told some very interesting findings. Greater well-being was associated with spending less time alone and more time talking to others: The happiest participants spent 25 per cent less time alone and 70 per cent more time talking than the unhappiest participants. Furthermore, the happiest participants had twice as many substantive conversations and one third as much small talk as the unhappiest participants.

The researchers conclude that deep conversations may have the potential to make people happier. They say: "Just as self-disclosure can instill a sense of intimacy in a relationship, deep conversations may instill a sense of meaning in the interaction partners."

Father and Son

This is my medical store. It's a 24 hour store. I took my son Shivam there to see and be aware of what we have in life. Even if he still young I tried to show him and tell him the importance of a medical store. Most of the kids only wanted to play and play. Yes, Shivam has his time to play but whenever I'm around he sees to it that he have time for us together. I know my son is happy of what he is knowing about facts of life. Gradually, I'm opening his eyes of what life is. How life is going, how hard is life, how sad is life. But the most important thing is that I showed my son how happy is life. I want my son to learn things in life even if he is still a kid. I want to prepare my son, not only physically but spiritually wise. I'm glad that he is a kid that he has potential to be like me in the future.